Monthly Archives: November 2012

The Cry

I was in my room, catching up on facebook after a busy day. Checking my emails, getting sidetracked… you know.

The boys were still sleeping, my hubby was off to work, Eva was toddling around.

Then I heard it… the cry.

I went to check on Eva to see what was wrong. She loves to climb on the back of the couch and look out the picture window. But she is still so tipsy. So she had fallen over onto the end table beside the couch. It was actually quite funny! She wasn’t hurt, but she couldn’t move. ๐Ÿ™‚ I laughed at her, but picked her up and kissed her.

Sometimes we cry to the Father because we are overwhelmed. We aren’t always hurt, but we are trapped. We can’t move. We don’t know what to do, or where to go. So we cry! He wants us to cry! He wants us to reach out to Him when we just have fallen on our faces and need help getting up.

When we cry, He will come. And that makes me feel so loved.

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Thanksgiving 2012

This is our 6th Thanksgiving in Ohio. That’s so hard to believe sometimes. The years are flying by!

Our first Thanksgiving here at the Reagan family home was in 2007. I was expecting our first little blessing. The Reagans’ 5th little one was ย only 5 months old.

Things have changed! ๐Ÿ™‚ Now there are 9 little ones between us, and 5 years of friendship.

Sights of the 6th Reagan/Boyer Thanksgiving:

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New Year’s Goal #1

I have decided after a few days of deliberation… I am going to read 50 books next year! That is almost 1 per week. That is probably very weak for some of you avid readers, but I feel it is a lofty, but doable goal for myself!

So, I need your recommendations! I want to read a lot about being a wife, a mother, organization, and just the regular Christian life type. I love to read! And another one of my goals, which I am starting to implement now, is to have less facebook, and less movies. Therefore, I will have plenty of time to read!

Readers are succeeders, so I want to read a LOT! ๐Ÿ˜€

So, let me know your favorites.

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I have been thinking about New Year’s resolutions for a while already. I read a book this year, and the extremely organized author starting working on her goals for the new year and I think actually had them finalized by November!

I love the new year! It’s so fresh! I love when God gives a fresh start… which can be anytime, but the new year is especially wonderful to me!

I have goals in music, Bible, books and other areas, but here is the link to one I am going to do with my children! I know it won’t always be easy and I’m sure there will be busy weeks when we forget, but we’re going for it! It is 50 important verses to memorize! We are going to do it as a family. We might change a few, but this is a great list with lots of work already done for you! I thought you might be interested and like to prepare for it yourself.ย  I am going to get 3×5 cards, and a little recipe-sized box to keep them in, so we can add to them as we memorize!

Also, this is post #293 for me! When I hit 300, I will be doing a giveaway, so stay tuned! ๐Ÿ™‚

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Live Your Life With Joy!

“But none of these things move me,

neither count I my life dear unto myself,

so that I might finish my course with joy…”

Why do we need joy?

  • The joy of the Lord is our strength (Nehemiah 8:10)
  • When we cease to be joyful in the Lord, we aren’t very affective, are we? Can someone in a bad mood be a blessing to anyone? (the answer is “no”)
  • Does the world want what we have if we are miserable? (I doubt it.)
  • When I don’t have joy, even if I am quiet about it, itย affects my family. When I’m grumpy, my family knows this, and my children’s moods often mirror mine!

What hinders our joy?

  • Things “moving us” like our verse speaks of. If something “moves me,” it will rob my joy. When we let life’s circumstances move us, it will take our joy away! Paul, in this passage, did not have much longer to live. And he knew it. His life as a Christian had SO many hardships as given in II Corinthians 11. But all these circumstances wouldn’t “move” him. He didn’t get off course! Life can be hard! If a loved one dies, or is diagnosed with cancer, or walks away from God, I’m not suggesting you walk around with a smile on your face. It’s okay to be sad and grieve . It’s okay to take time to rest. Just don’t let your course be altered!
  • If I “count I my life dear unto myself.” The work of the Lord is more important than myself! The apostle Paul was ready to die! We have to be ready to live a living death. A sacrificial life, where we are more concerned with others, and the Lord…more than ourselves. For me, taking care of my husband and my children is a more important job than anything I want to do. In my life’s course, this is the section of the race that I am in. It has hurdles! (called small children!) ๐Ÿ™‚ Whatever season of life you are in, do that work for Christ! I recently read a book called The Stay at Home Mom. In that book, the author did a beautiful job of making me see that taking care of my children is great ministry for Christ! Doing a service for my children is doing it for Him! Remember in Matthew the passage where Jesus told the disciples that He was sick, and they cared for Him, in prison, and they visited Him? He said, “Inasmuch as ye have done it unto one of the least of these my brethren, ye have done it unto me.” I am doing it for Him when I take care of my little people. In my life, I am Christ to my children. Until they can see Him for themselves, I am all Him they know. My relationship with them – how I love them, how I deal with them – gives them a picture of the Heavenly Father. My time with them is too short, too important not to live with joy! When I lose my joy, I am useless!

How do we get joy?

  • Jesus is your joy! If you have trusted Him as your personal Savior, He is your joy! You already have Him.
  • “Draw nigh to God, and he will draw nigh to you.” (James 4:8) Spend time in His Word, and you will become more like Him, more joyful!
  • Keep your spirits up with practical things – surround yourself with happy people, play refreshing music, read encouraging books! Keep your head full of good things so there is no room for unhappy, discontented thoughts to take over.

Picture your course. How is it laid out? What sections have you gone through? Part of it has been smooth track, part of it has had hurdles, maybe part has gone through a lonely desert with heat and thirst. Now picture an Olympic athlete. Have you ever seen a track runner go through that finish line, the tape breaking across her chest, and NOT smile?! No way!

Let’s finish the course with joy!


Did you know????

Laughter is good for your health!

  • A good hearty laugh relieves physical tension and stress, leaving your muscles relaxed for up to 45 minutes after.
  • Laughter decreases stress hormones and increases immune cells and infection-fighting antibodies, thus improving your resistance to disease.
  • Laughter triggers the release of endorphins, the body’s natural feel-good chemicals. Endorphins promote an overall sense of well-being and can even temporarily relieve pain.
  • Laughter protects the heart. It improves the function of blood vessels and increases blood flow, which can help protect you against heart attack and other cardiovascular problems.

Mental health benefits:

  • Adds joy and zest to life
  • Eases anxiety and fear
  • Relieves stress
  • Improves mood
  • Enhances resilience

{I googled, therefore it must be true}

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